November 5, 2009

Pep talk

These two quotes should probably be printed at the front of every Bible study and on every church bulletin, tucked into the pocket of every Christian, carved over the doors to every church, and burned into the memory of every believer. Pursuing a life in Christ is not about getting one’s ducks in a row but a matter of continual reawakening:

From “Jesus: A Meditation on His Stories and His Relationships with Women,” by Andrew Greeley:

“We must begin a search for understanding some of the stories of Jesus with the realization that he is deliberately elusive, mysterious, enigmatic, paradoxical. Hence we will never finish our search. We will never understand him. He is a man of surprises, appropriate for one who claims to witness a God of surprises. This, when we think we at last have figured him out, truly understand him, and can sign him up for our cause, we find that he has slipped away. … The Jesus we have shaped to fit our ideas, our needs, our fears, may be a very interesting and special person, but he is no longer Jesus. …

“Those who followed him in Palestine a couple of millennia ago were fascinated by his stories. They had heard most of them before, but he insisted on ending the stories with a disturbing twist, a disconcerting finale. … His good news indeed sounded good, perhaps too good to be true, but it didn’t fit the expectations of his followers, even the closest followers. It disturbed them.

If he doesn’t disturb us, then he’s not Jesus.

From “The Sacredness of Questioning Everything,” by David Dark:

“C.S. Lewis once observed that while many people use art, only a very few receive it. … We only receive art when we let it call our own lives into question.

“If the words of Jesus of Nazareth, for instance, strike us as comfortable and perfectly in tune with our own confident common sense, our likes and dislikes, our budgets, and our actions toward strangers and foreigners, the receiving the words of Jesus is probably not what we’re doing. We may quote a verse, put it in a PowerPoint presentation, or even intone it loudly with an emotional, choked-up quiver, but if it doesn’t scandalize or bother us, challenging our already-made-up minds, we aren’t really receiving it.

“If we aren’t reaching toward a fresh understanding of the world through the questions we ask, we remain pretty well zombified in the cold comfort of a dead religiousity. Fresh questions and new acts of imagination are our primary means to encounter love and liveliness, to discover integrity and authenticity. Without them, we’re pretty much done for.”

October 4, 2009

Creatures of habit

laptopJust recently, my laptop had some soda spilled into the port end, and I had to pull it apart and let all the components dry for a week to see if it would work again. (It did, thankfully.) During that week, I was unable to waste time web-browsing, hulu-watching, facebook-checking, and article-writing. None of those things are bad per-se, but in their stead I ended up reading three and a half books, which probably doubles my total for the year.

What’s more, I re-discovered that reading books leads me into a better and deeper place with God. It’s not that I don’t spend time online reading Christian meditations and insights, but I fear that I read under the pressure of getting to next thing. I perhaps skim a bit more, and, too often don’t give myself the time to absorb and reflect. In the midst of a book, I find it easy to stop and to pray, to consider my life, and to give my full attention (or as much of it as I have with a two-year-old in the house).

I have also been going through a move, which is causing me to consider all of the things I own and what I really need. I am looking at this new space and considering how to arrange my life within it. And it is within the context of these two big changes that I have made a new spirit-change goal for the fall that is among the most challenging (but most spot-on and deep-seated) that I’ve tried in years. I think I’ve been given a clarity of vision about myself that I sometimes lose when I’m running more on auto-pilot.

What Paul MeantOddly enough, one of the books I’ve been reading, “A Perfect Mess” by Eric Abrahamson and David H. Freedman, makes a similar point about how making changes in one area requires a bit of a shakeup in life overall, to un-stick you. I thought it worth sharing with Christlikeness-seekers:

“The most common cause of stress at organizations, [Ben] Fletcher explains, is mistreatment at the hands of managers, who often tend to be overly assertive, rigid, and intolerant. In working with managers to help them improve their behavior, he found that while managers could usually understand and accept the fact that they had been acting inappropriately, they were rarely able to make and maintain long-term changes in their behavior with subordinates. People are simply too conditioned to acting the same way every day, he says, which often makes being locked into harmful habits.  Focus and consistency, in other words, became barriers to solving problems. So Fletcher asked the managers to alter other, easier-to-change behaviors in their lives, like the route they took to work or what they ate for lunch or where they sat at meetings — anything at all, as long as it introduced some variation in behavior. The results were surprising: over the course of as little as a few weeks, managers who threw monkey wrenches into their routines in this way found that they were also able to change the way they treated subordinates. The reason, says Fletcher, is that peple tend to get trapped in what he calls “habit webs.” When they try to effect an important, useful change, they find they’re stuck tight. But if they snip away at individual, thin, supporting strands of the web, the web can eventually be loosened enough to permit more important change. ‘New behaviors lead to new experiences, and eventually that helps people change the way they think,’ he says.”

We only have on record about three years of what Jesus’ life was like, but it’s pretty clear from the gospels that Jesus didn’t have a schedule. He didn’t have office hours. He didn’t have touring dates. He was led by the spirit from one place to the next, often arriving late (according to when people wanted him there), and always being open to whoever crossed his path and making time for them. Jesus didn’t give himself the opportunity to get hooked into a routine that he would later have to fight against to make his spirit free.

Of course, the world is a different place today, and punctuality and scheduling of events have become more a part of society now that we all have clocks. Going fully anarchist in scheduling might not be possible. But if Jesus didn’t need things neat, ordered, and settled, and he was open to new experiences and new challenges and disruptions, then perhaps it is a good idea to view such “difficulties” in life as important elements in trying to live more in God’s spirit.

— by Steve Lansingh

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June 11, 2009

Happy birthday to us!

June 11One year ago today, we held our first official meeting as a no-profit spiritual mentorship group here in Seattle.

Thanks, Courtney and Mayna, for growing with us, and thanks to the moppers at Northgate Mall who have cleaned up after Corin’s spills.

We invite any interested parties to join us for fun, smoothies, and good conversation this summer!

June 11, 2009

Our Curriculum (such as it is)

curriculumWHEN CHRISTLIKENESS GROUPS first started, I had developed a somewhat convoluted curriculum for us to follow. As reality weathered away intention, we were left with a much more simple — maybe deceptively simple — approach to helping one another grow in deeper Christlikeness.

Essentially, we ask of each other three questions:
1) What’s going on in your relationship with God?
2) Where are you striving to grow spiritually right now?
3) How can we help you make progress in getting there?

These do not seem like exceptional questions, but in the lives of nearly every Christian I talk to, they are questions that very often go unasked. When they are asked, the answers usually go unheard.

The typical church service is a one-sided communication. A sermon may push a person to consider his or her relationship with God, or to seek a place to grow in faith, but there is no one available to listen to the response. There is no follow-through. A weekly Bible study would seem like a great place for deeper, responsive conversation, but most often the Christian life is discussed obliquely, through the third person. Much emphasis is placed on what “a Christian” should know or believe or understand — an examination of doctrines, perhaps seasoned by a personal example or two — rather than on challenges to personally become transformed in tangible ways by a closeness with the Scriptures. It’s considered intrusive, perhaps, to ask someone to make a plan of action, to follow up on their progress — to ask more of them than to sit back and ruminate on an issue. But most of us as human beings are desperate for the people around us to say: I want to hear your story; I want to be with you in your struggle; I care about where you go from here; you are not alone. We long for that depth of involvement, even as we fear it — but fear need not win out. Keep reading →

April 29, 2009

Searching the Scriptures: Matthew 2:13-18

This is part 3 of my journey through the Bible, as I seek out passages that can encourage us in our collective efforts toward Christlikeness, highlighting the idea that God is less interested in our behavior and our talk and is far more interested in our hearts and our maturity. Read the thesis statement here.

WE ARE not too far into Matthew before we get our first hints that Jesus is a dangerous threat to power. The king of the realm, Herod, attempts to murder the young Jesus after hearing that the prophesied King of the Jews had been born in Bethlehem. At this point in the story, it is still political power that people feared (or hoped) the Messiah would wield.

Reading this passage today, it seems like a horrific and entirely preventable tragedy — after all, it was never Jesus’ intention to directly challenge Herod for this throne. There was no need for such violence. But Herod was right to be afraid, just as the Pharisees were right to be afraid as Jesus began to threaten their power structures: the religious, tribal, and familial systems. It was not his intention to directly take over their seats of power — not even abstractly, through a changing of the guard to more spirit-filled leaders. God leaves many corrupted and feckless leaders in power. Instead, it was Jesus’ intention to liberate people from the need to suck up to authority.

relinquishEvery means of control that authority has — from the ability to grant status and comforts, to the ability to take away support and means and even life from a person — is only granted to the leaders by the people who buy into their system of thinking. A boss has power only if you are afraid of losing your job, or if you desire promotions or accolades. A teacher has power only if you are afraid of failing, or if you desire a particular grade. A dictator has power only if you are afraid of dying, or if you can work the system to your or your family’s advantage. The same goes for pastors, for parents, for reporters, for police officers, for the rich, for bullies, for the fashionista, and on and on. We confer their status on them only insofar as we are under their sway.

What Jesus does is he comes in and says: “Do you need someone to grant you honor and respect? I call you children of God. Do you fear losing your means of support? Trust in me for everything. Do you fear death? I will be with you in paradise. Do you desire joy in life? Walk alongside me. Whatever the authorities are asking you trust in them for, trust instead in me. Whatever they are threatening to take away from you, I will give you.” Life lived in Jesus is a life of freedom, a life secure in the knowledge of who you are, a life not spent chasing after the approval and praise of leaders.

But make no mistake, as we see from the life of Jesus, if you boldly live your life with no dependence on authority’s ability to confer status, praise, comfort, or respect upon you, then you are a threat to its power. You cannot be coerced or controlled, and that scares them. Not everyone around you will be happy with you, because you undermine the illusions that they still cling to. Following Jesus is not just subscribing to a different authoritarian system than your neighbor, but an entrance into a new reality, into a freedom so complete and untethered to normal social conventions that we live as strangers and aliens in this world.

So what is left of authority when you take away its power? Human beings still have to live together, in a variety of structures, in order to function as a society, and certain individuals must take the responsibility to make sure things run smoothly. Jesus wasn’t advocating anarchy; that’s why he tells us to follow the laws of the land insofar as they don’t conflict with God’s law of love. Earthly authorities are still necessary, but robbed of the power to coerce and frighten and control, they are left only with the ability to serve, to nurture and advance the people they have been entrusted to care for. The political leader becomes the public servant; the enforcers of the law try to ‘protect and serve.’ Absent unchecked power, positions of authority become positions of servanthood.

This is the way that Jesus came into the world: he who had all authority gave up authority in order to become a servant. He did not swoop in, as Herod and others expected, on chariots and in purple robes. He came as one who feeds, one who instructs, one who listens, one who knows no favorites, one who shows mercy, one who calls us beyond ourselves. Jesus came as a river of life, active and flowing, that burst through rigid and solidified power structures and let the renewal of dignity and honor wash over everyone.

We willingly subject ourselves to him because he makes no effort to try to control or coerce us. Jesus never hardens, never clamps down, never imposes, because he does not fear. He loves. And through his unrelenting grace toward us, we also do not have to fear authority. We can be confident that serving him and serving people is where the true power lies; the humble servants of Christ have had an overwhelming effect on the course of history as power structure after power structure has fallen and disappeared. We the ordinary have more of an influence than the institutions lead us to believe; the question is: will we find our identity in God rather than in people? And will we, in whatever roles of authority we have — as parents, as church members, with our wealth, with our freedoms, with our wisdom — be strong enough and bold enough to act always as Christlike servants?

— by Steve Lansingh

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April 5, 2009

Searching the Scriptures: Matthew 1:21

This is part 2 of my journey through the Bible, as I seek out passages that can encourage us in our collective efforts toward Christlikeness, highlighting the idea that God is less interested in our behavior and our talk and is far more interested in our hearts and our maturity. Read the thesis statement here.

MATTHEW 1:21 is another instance where the original hearers would have had a far different understanding than we have today.

enslavedThe angel tells Mary, “you are to name him Jesus ['The Lord saves'], for he will save his people from their sins.” But remember, at the time this was written, the Jewish people were not crying out to be saved from their individual transgressions before God; they were receiving God’s forgiveness through the regular animal sacrifices that the Old Testament required. They would have instead understood it as being saved from their collective sin as a nation, which were so great that God allowed the nation of Israel to be taken over by occupiers. They yearned for their sovereignty, their independence, the restoration of their nation. That is how their readings of the Messianic prophecies slanted: expecting either 1) a military hero who would lead an uprising, or 2) a moral taskmaster who would purge the unworthy from the ranks of society and make the nation once more pleasing enough to God that he would restore them.

Jesus ended up turning those expectations on their head: instead of taking up arms, he laid down his life in selfless sacrifice. He did not reject but reached out to the unworthy of society, and included them in his vision for a new kingdom. It was spiritual freedom that he came to bring, not national freedom.

But I think we miss something about this verse if we don’t understand that ancient yearning for restoration, sovereignty, and regaining the place in the world God intended for us.

In modern Christianity, we read the idea of being “saved from your sins” primarily as the key to entering heaven. But is that all that sin keeps us from, a future destination? Doesn’t sin also keep us in bondage in this world as well? Think of a relationship you’ve had that blew up and you haven’t restored it yet. Doesn’t that harm you? Doesn’t that burden you with guilt, regret, and even timidity in forging new relationships? Doesn’t it harm God’s witness in the world that you cannot reconcile with a brother or sister? Being forgiven of our sins is not just a matter of comforting us personally, but of granting us freedom in that situation so that we can go and make it right again. Being freed from sin has to do with healing, with being remade, with living a life of newfound courage. We are slaves no longer.

Let’s say that a rich man had an avid gambler for a son, who amassed huge debts, more than he could ever hope to pay. The rich man then decides to pay off all the creditors. Do you think all he is hoping for is that he and his son can now have a relationship again? Clearly he also wants his son to turn his back on his vice, to forge a new and different life, one that reflects better the stature of the father. In the same way, God saves us not to wipe the slate clean, but to build us toward something better, toward our full selves, toward the mature and Christlike sons and daughters that he intended us to be.

— by Steve Lansingh

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April 4, 2009

Searching the Scriptures: Matthew 1:1-17

This is part 1 of my journey through the Bible, as I seek out passages that can encourage us in our collective efforts toward Christlikeness, highlighting the idea that God is less interested in our behavior and our talk and is far more interested in our hearts and our maturity. Read the thesis statement here.

royal lineageTHE FIRST 17 VERSES of the New Testament, detailing the ancestral lineage of Jesus of Nazareth, sound much different to our ears today than they did to the original readers of the book.

To us, it seems like appendix material, an interesting footnote, not something you’d start off with when introducing a person. But at the time, one’s place in the world was almost exclusively inherited, and one’s pedigree was the place you had to begin. The statement here is that, as a direct male descendent of Abraham and David, Jesus is the inheritor of both God’s promises and Godly authority. Matthew’s audience was a Jewish one, and he wanted to set the stage of Jesus’ arrival by showcasing his legitimacy in Jewish eyes.

By the end of the gospels, and the New Testament, of course, we will discover that the transformational life of Christ has rendered such claims to legitimacy through lineage to be unsubstantial. Jesus could tout these rights, but sets them down and chooses not to. What God cares about is not status or family or pedigree, but the heart — our character. We are told to abandon our families if they keep us from following Christ, for together in Christ we have a new family. In Jesus, the apostle Paul writes, there is no male or female, no Jew or Greek, no slave or free. We are all equal in the eyes of God, and we must each, on our own, examine our beliefs and actions rather than simply inherit them. This is good news for humanity.

So if the beginning of Matthew 1 comes across as patriarchal, or pretentious, or dull, it is simply setting the stage for its own reversal of importance. Matthew is working to change minds, reaching out to skeptical inquisitors through arguments that they would understand before revealing how Jesus transcended his qualifications.

So while there is no verse here we can point to that says God is specifically interested in our hearts, or our maturity, the passage is important in understanding the mindset of the time in which God will be working. The context in which they lived was one where your interior self was of little concern, compared with your heritage and your upholding of your role. God does not merely dismiss this concept, he fulfills it to the highest degree, gaining the authority from which to say there is something more important.

The simple fact that as modern readers we are kind of bored by this passage, taking it for granted that anyone from anywhere has value and whose viewpoint should be heard out, shows how deeply the message of Jesus has penetrated the world.

— by Steve Lansingh

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April 3, 2009

Searching the Scriptures: A Project Overview

Searching the ScripturesWHAT DOES THE Bible say? What is its overarching message?

In the general culture, the Bible is often perceived as a bunch of old stories and rules about how to live righteously. In the church, the Bible is more accurately seen as a revelation of how accepting the death and resurrection of Jesus makes us righteous before God.

Both of these answers focus primarily on what God might want from us (our righteousness, our faith) but don’t touch on the more pertinent question: What does God want for us?

The Bible is actually quite clear on the subject: God wants us to live in love. He wants us to grow in maturity. He wants us to embrace a new spirit. He wants us to enter fully into life, not being afraid to suffer, for he is our strength. He wants us to understand ourselves well, to be neither blind to nor disillusioned by our own humanness, so that we can come alongside others in theirs. He wants us to exercise our creativity, passion, and authenticity as we join in his work in the world. He wants us to enjoy communion with him. He wants us to know joy, courage, and hope. All of which can be summed up in one singular imperative: He desires for us to become imitators of Jesus Christ. He wants us to live in relationship with, and take on the character of, his Son. To put it in a single word: Christlikeness.

The “Searching the Scriptures” series is my chapter-by-chapter journey through the Bible, to highlight and reflect on the hundreds of passages that show that God is less interested in our behaviors and our words and is far more interested in our hearts. He doesn’t care about compliance but about motivation. He doesn’t value achievement but pliability. He wants our hearts to be open, our instinctual reactions to be transformed, and for our very nature to embrace mercy and love, as Christ did.

The overarching purpose of Christlikeness Groups is to cut through the clutter of what the modern Christian life requires of us and to instead pay careful attention to the state of our hearts, our character, our maturity. The posts that follow will explore, from Matthew to Malachi, every passage that encourages us to press on in that difficult and glorious journey.

(Click here to access every post from the “Searching the Scriptures” series.)

.— by Steve Lansingh

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April 2, 2009

Songs of encouragement: When Will I Become

songs of encouragementMUSIC IS A POWERFUL force in shaping what we think about. A book or a sermon may resonate for the short time we remember it, but a song can be carried with us through the years, able to be recalled in times of need. I have written a few songs which I will post on the blog that convey, perhaps better than my endless ramblings, exactly what we are all yearning for in our pursuit of God.

WHEN WILL I BECOME

lyrics by Steve Lansingh, music by Steve Lansingh and Amanda Caldwell

Click on the play button to hear the song on your computer:

(If this doesn’t work, click here to download the song.)

Lyrics:

I’m living so small
Lord, can this be all
that you meant for me to become

I don’t want to settle
but do I have the mettle
to push through on what I’ve begun

I know I must die
and let you inside
if I hope to love everyone

and be more like my Savior
more like my Jesus
more like the Christ Immanuel
more like my Savior
more like my Jesus
more like the Lamb of Israel
more like my God
so full of love
when will I become

I think I’ve come far
then I look at the bar
that you set when you died on a tree

can I call myself yours
if I choose to ignore
all that you can accomplish through me

give me more of your Spirit
and let those who come near it
feel your touch in my words and my deeds

make me more like my Savior
more like my Jesus
more like the Christ Immanuel
more like my Savior
more like my Jesus
more like the Lamb of Israel
more like my God
so full of love
when will I become

I have not arrived … I am becoming
I’m not satisfied … so I’m still running
I can not stand by … I must do something

to be more like my Savior
more of his nature
more like the Christ Immanuel
more open-hearted
more joyous and love-led
just like the Lamb of Israel
more like my God
so full of love
please let me become

more like my Savior
more like my Jesus
more like the Christ Immanuel
more like my Savior
more like my Jesus
more like the Lamb of Israel
more like my God
so full of love
when will I become

more like my God
so full of love
please let me become

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March 28, 2009

Essay: The art of self-evaluation

self-reflection

ONE OF THE KEY concepts in seeking a Christlike spirit is the art of self-evaluation. It is among the most difficult concepts to master, because each of us is hard-wired to take our value from external sources: an award, a diploma, praise from authority. We often look to how others regard us for clues as to how regard ourselves. But God looks to the heart, and we have to learn to see how God sees. Simply fulfilling a checklist of behaviors is not success. Good standing in the community is not success. We must shine a light on our motivations, our attitude, our character.

Let us say that God is convicting you to become a more generous person. You have identified generosity as your spirit change. There are many ways in which you might grow in generosity — through your money, time, attention, resources, or words. But the first inclination most of us have is to tally up the quantity of dollars, hours, and kindnesses over the past month or year and then make a goal to increase that quantity. We immediately jump to the idea that increasing instances of generosity equals being more generous.

Or, on a more sophisticated level, we might remember the account of the widow who donated her last few pennies to the church, which Jesus praised as being a larger donation than the vast contributions of the wealthy folks. She gave sacrificially, of a higher percentage than anyone else. The temptation here is to think that raising your percentage of generous incidents higher than you thought possible will serve as proof that you are really changing into a generous person.

What Luke 21 doesn’t mention specifically, but which we can deduce, is that the widow gave her money willingly, even eagerly. You just don’t give all of your money away reluctantly, you do it enthusiastically, devotedly, passionately. That attitude, that spirit, is what you’re after when you are trying to work on generosity. Forget the specifics, the tally. Sure, you have to live out the change practically and concretely, but your focus should always be on changing your inner motivation — on wearing down your resistance to the impulse of generosity. Doing it for the right reasons.

The apostle Paul says that attitudes matter:

“And don’t give reluctantly or in response to pressure. ‘For God loves a person who gives cheerfully.’” (1 Corinthians 9:7)

and that God is invested in your motivations:

“For God is working in you, giving you the desire and the power to do what pleases him.” (Philippians 2:13)

So when you’re working on a spirit change, and you’re trying to evaluate how things are going, you shouldn’t rely on how hard you worked, how much you did, how impressed people were, or how proud you feel. You need to ask yourself: Have I been doing it for the right reasons? Have I been developing the attitude that God wants to cultivate in me? Have I been motivated by guilt or pride or self-satisfaction — or is it by joy, and a by tangible experience of God’s love nudging me to take a risk?

“…they are also filled with abundant joy, which has overflowed in rich generosity.” (2 Corinthians 8:2)

.— by Steve Lansingh

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